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Post by murray on Feb 17, 2011 17:01:09 GMT -5
It's nice to know that I'm not the only one who likes to be able to describe myself accurately with lots of nice words.
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Post by wanderer on Sept 8, 2013 13:50:46 GMT -5
"I find the common definition of asexual as, "someone who doesn't want to have sex with anyone" somewhat problematic, since nothing stops asexuals from wanting and even enjoying sex. " (sorry, I don't know how to use the quote function)
Although sex is not something that I wish to 'do', I have wanted to have it with someone. I wanted it as some hypothetical thing I thought people needed to do to have to 'truly' have a real relationship. I wanted the idea, not the reality of a sexual relationship.
I can see how someone can want actual (not hypothetical) sex without experiencing sexual attraction. I have not yet encountered a situation in which I have felt someone is wrong in how they self identify. I hope this helps somehow.
I'm stumbling over these concepts because my range of experience is very limited (I apologize for this ignorance, I'm working on it)
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Post by anhamirak on Oct 28, 2013 3:26:17 GMT -5
"I wanted the idea, not the reality of a sexual relationship. I really resonate with this idea. Sex sounds great in my head, but then the reality of it is just...bleh. |
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